Little Luxuries That Made My Micro Wedding Weekend Feel Extra Special

If there’s one thing I learned planning a micro wedding, it’s that the small details matter way more than the headcount. With a shorter guest list and a simpler schedule, I found myself able to focus on the little things—those subtle, thoughtful touches that turned an intimate weekend into an unforgettable memory.

Here are the “little luxuries” that made all the difference for me and my partner. Spoiler: they weren’t all big-ticket splurges—just a handful of treats that brought a sense of comfort, style, and joy to our celebration.

A Gorgeous Nightgown for Getting Ready (and Quiet Moments)

I’d always thought of nightgowns as a practical thing—until my wedding weekend. I picked out a beautiful, soft nightgown just for those slow, quiet hours before the festivities started. It ended up being the MVP of my weekend wardrobe: perfect for lounging while I did my own hair and makeup, sweet for the “getting ready” photos my friend snapped at home, and honestly, so comfortable I wore it way past breakfast.

Not only did it make those early hours feel elegant, but looking back at the photos, I’m so glad I had something a little special and timeless for those behind-the-scenes memories. If you’re planning a micro wedding, a lovely nightgown is the sort of luxury that feels just for you—no audience required.

Candlelight, Everywhere

With fewer people and a cozier space, I went all in on candles. Tea lights, scented candles, lanterns—every surface had a soft, golden glow. It made even our takeout dinner on the living room floor feel magical. Bonus: the gentle light was super flattering for impromptu photos, too.

Personalized Playlist

Instead of hiring a DJ or live band, we made a playlist of songs that actually meant something to us—first dates, family memories, all the inside jokes. Having those tracks on shuffle all weekend was such a mood-booster, and it was easy to switch from slow, romantic songs to goofy dance breaks with zero planning.

Treat-Yourself Breakfast

On the morning of our ceremony, we skipped the stress and treated ourselves to really good pastries from a local bakery and the best coffee we could find. No elaborate brunch, just a few of our favorite things in bed together. It was simple, affordable, and felt like the ultimate little luxury before a big day.

Special Scents

I treated myself to a new perfume just for the wedding weekend—a scent I now associate with those sweet, quiet moments. Every time I use it now, it takes me right back to our micro wedding and reminds me how good it felt to slow down and soak it all in.

Fancy (But Comfy) Slippers

You don’t need stilettos to feel special. I picked up a pair of plush, pretty slippers for padding around at home and honestly, I felt more bridal than I ever expected. Plus, my feet thanked me.

Wrapping It Up

Micro weddings have a way of putting the spotlight on what actually matters: the people, the moments, and the little luxuries that make it all feel just right. For me, slipping into a beautiful nightgown for quiet moments at home was just as meaningful as saying “I do.” So don’t be afraid to treat yourself to those tiny touches—whether it’s candlelight, pastries, music, or a bit of pretty loungewear. When you look back, it’s those little luxuries that’ll make the weekend feel extra special.